A life-changing. transformative, awakening and empowering experience – Kathy, Chicago

Attention: Those Ready for Happy and Love-Filled Relationships, Right Now!

Married, Single, Divorced, Dating… You Can Stop Wishing & Waiting For Love, Repeating Unhappy Relationship Patterns, and Putting Up with Mediocre or Frustrating Relationships…

And Start Having Relationships You Love & That Love You Back!

Every relationship starts with the relationship you have with yourself



Join us for a magical 40-day experience, Take a stand for only having loving, respectful relationships in your life… including the one with yourself! End Love Starvation, Loneliness and Settling for Good!

We have a question for you… if it is true that…

Love is free. Love is everywhere. Love is supposed to be easy.

How come your relationships can often be more a source of frustration, confusion and self-judgment, than the bliss the fairy tales and Hallmark cards always promised?

You’re smart. You’re a good person.

This love thing shouldn’t be so difficult.

Your relationships shouldn’t be so hard.

But for some reason, whether you are single and having a hard time finding ‘the one’ or

in a relationship struggling to ‘make it work’ or wanting it to be better,

or confused as to what to do with the dramatic and difficult people in your life,

your love life & relationships aren’t what you hoped or want them to be.

Here’s the truth… There is nothing wrong with you. Nothing to fix. And nothing to apologize for – You do NOT have to settle in your relationships.

If you want to be happy in your life & relationships today Regardless of if you have a warm body next to you in bed Regardless of who your mate or date is or isn’t being Regardless of any relationship other than the one you have with yourself, Then you need to take your Love Power back. Pronto.


When your LOVE POWER is strong you…
  • Feel loved no matter what is going on in your love life or with anyone else (you stop putting your happiness in the hands of others)
  • Attract relationships that support you to live your dreams and be your best self (and stop creating or putting up with ones that don’t)
  • Know who you should be vulnerable and intimate with, and who not to (you stop setting yourself up for drama, disappointment and heartbreak)
  • Feel complete and happy without a mate and regardless of the happiness (or unhappiness) of any other person – friend, relative, anyone – in your life (goodbye co-dependency, hello at being at choice in every relationship)
  • Trust yourself to make good choices for yourself in all your relationships (even when it’s hard, you have the strength to stay true to yourself, first!)
  • Have multiple streams of love (you don’t rely on just a few relationships to be your main source of love.)
  • Love yourself, first (put your self-respect, happiness and dreams first, without apology.)

No, this is not about going to the spa or getting your nails done. Or doing yoga once a week. Real self-love is about Committing to YOURSELF above anyone else. An unapologetic stand for your choices in relationship (regardless of what anyone else says) A vow to yourself to…

Never settle for less than your heart and soul desire… To only have respectful, loving relationships… And to get all the love that you want in ways that make YOU happy!

How’s that for a stand for yourself? It’s good. And Powerful. Daring! And your divine right. We know! Over the past ten years, we — Christine & Christine — both decided to


(regardless of our relationship status – romantic, friendship, & relatives)

And by being wealthy in love, all the other areas of our lives began overflowing with happiness and abundance too:

  • Happier careers partnering with people we love (doing what we love, receiving more support, and having more fun along the way)
  • Better, more soulful friendships with amazing women and men (who are there to support us unconditionally – in our brilliance and in our humanness)
  • More financial abundance and freedom (love and money go hand in hand)
  • Healthier bodies (we rarely get sick, we feel great most days, and when we don’t we know how to take care of ourselves).
  • More emotional stability (yes, we get sad sometimes, but we don’t stay there and we have great life lines of loving support when we need them.)

We know how to do this – we’ve helped thousands of people around the world do it too – and now…


It’s time to break down the barriers, rewire the wrong beliefs about love and start experiencing the miracle of putting your most important relationship first –

the one with yourself!

So every other relationship can rock your world with love too!



Choosing ME Before WE

A 40-day daring dive to creating the happiest, most loving relationships of your life




We invite you to join us for one big detox from fear, suffering, settling, and judgment about love so you can truly create the life you want for yourself – starting with the relationship with yourself and the relationship you have with every person in your life.

By the end of the 40 days, you will…

  • Have the power to transform even your hardest relationships and become smarter about love so you can stop making the same mistakes and repeating the same patterns.
  • Take a stand for the kind of relationships you really want, and settle for nothing less – claim what you really want – in a mate, friends, family, co-workers – with much better clarity so you can stop creating what you don’t want.
  • Eliminate suffering around your relationship status – whether that’s being single, stuck in a relationship that isn’t what you want, or unable to create the partnership you long for, learn to take back the power of your heart so you can be happy (for real) even when your relationship status isn’t perfect.
  • Release the fears of being alone, of time running out, and being a failure in love – discover how listen to and trust your personal love story, love needs and life timing (which is different than everyone else’s)
  • Bust through the lies and limiting beliefs keeping you from love – find all kinds of ideas and notions inside your psyche you didn’t even know where in there sabotaging your love life and relationships, and let them go for good!
  • Stop making non-loving choices and start making self-empowering, self-loving ones in all your relationships – become great at setting boundaries that let more love in without being a doormat in the process.
  • Take down the walls that keep you from receiving the love you want – find the ways in which you block yourself from receiving love, and get the keys to letting love in – big time!
  • Make loving yourself a reality, not just a nice theory. You know that when you love yourself, you become an instant attractor for more love (but how do you really do that?)

How? We know how to go from looking for love in all the wrong places to feeling loved, no matter what.

We know how to create relationships that make you happy, and transform the ones that don’t.

And we know how to love yourself, in ways that create the relationships and life you really want.

And while we can’t promise you that we will help you find the ‘one’

We can promise you that you will leave this 40-day course…

  • More in love with yourself
  • Able to transform the relationships in your life that don’t work
  • Creating relationships that not only work, but bring you great happiness
  • Knowing how to tap into multiple streams and sources of love
  • Feeling more empowered when it comes to love
  • Be empowered in ALL of your relationships
Christine’s insights into the issues of dating and mating are rock solid, and incredibly empowering and inspiring.Your courage, warmth, and strength shine through every word of Choosing ME before WE. It’s like having the calming voice of your very best girlfriend with you– the one whose reassuring voice calms your little (and big) moments of doubt. I highly recommend Choosing ME before WE. - Paula
I’ve gotten more out of this 40-day adventure than any other counseling or experience I’ve had before now. Thank you to the Christines who have opened their hearts and spilled their emotions for people like me to learn from. – Joanna, Texas

Get your seat in this “Love Bubble” Today!

How does the 40-Day Choosing ME Before WE self-love adventure work?
  • We’ve created a 40-day transformational experience, a retreat you can take right from your life, no airfare required – it’s a path full of inspiration, wisdom and tools to empower yourself to create the relationships you want, and stop settling for anything less. We will share how to create the relationships you want, transform the ones that aren’t working, and release what’s getting in your way of making the choices that bring you more love and connection and happiness right now. You will make shifts right away throughout the 40-days. And just like any change led by someone who knows the way, you’ll have the guidance and love of two of the leading self-love and relationship teachers all along the way. lt will be both powerful and fun!
  • Each week we’ll dive into your love life, kicking off each week with an activation session focused on one specific area, peeling back the layers so you can have new insight and breakthroughs.  We start week one shining the big love light on the love story and love strategy you’ve been trucking along to (and that’s not quite working.) Then you’ll discover what layers of protection you’ve built up (which keep love out), and skillfully learn how to let love in without being a doormat or setting yourself up for heartbreak. We, and our super Love Makers, will give you super powered tools to create fabulous relationships, fill up your love life with love, love yourself, and make 5 of the most important promises to yourself you’ll ever make.
  • You’ll get daily doses of self love, guidance and inspiration from us in a format that’s easy to follow and take in – we will come to you every day for 40 days! We kick off each week on Wednesdays with an audio session you can download and listen to from your computer or ipod, diving into that week’s focus. Every day, we’ll send you a short but powerful email, meditation or video on that week’s focus. Thursday, “Love-Generating Field Trips, called Love Work” based on that week’s focus, “Self-Love Dare Friday” challenging you to step out of your comfort zone and into the love zone. Saturday “Love Boosts” and “Love Mail Mondays”- you’ll receive a loving recorded message or meditation that sends the good vibration of love to you…
  • You’ll be joined by others around the world who have said, YES! to taking their love power back, so you won’t be alone! Hundreds of people just like you from around the world have taken this practice, and many new ones will take it with you now, which  means this journey is even more powerful. When you say YES! to this 40-day practice, you join a community full of love-powered energy to open you up to LOVE in BIG WAYS!
  • Access to everything online when you need it. Everything—the audio sessions, the dares, the lovework, written transcripts of the calls, inspirational blogs — are posted online so you can download them anytime.

No matter how much life may try to keep you busy,

We’ve built this transformational experience so you can stay committed to your promise to yourself.

We come to you, wherever you are.

A 40-day container built to love and support you!


Why 40 days?

Yogis, brain scientists and metaphysicists all agree that if you can do anything for 40 days you can change your life, transforming self-sabotaging patterns, behaviors and beliefs into new habits that are actually good for you—ones that actually create more love. Your brain changes, you open up to love, release fear, guilt and shame about love, and you can find new insights and trust new ways of being. So over the course of these 40-days, you will REWIRE PATTERNS… LET GO OF OLD HABITS… TRANSFORM LOVE-REPELLING BELIEFS… CLEANSE YOUR CELLS FROM ANYTHING THAT ISN’T LOVE… and you will emerge from this 40-day container more open to love than you might have ever expected. We have led and experienced 40-day containers just like this one with people around the world (and used them to shift ourselves). Time and time again, using the power of 40-days, the power of a group of people with a common focus, inviting in new perspectives, SHIFT HAPPENS! You can’t do it alone. None of us can.

Give up the Settling, Confusion & Frustration

and Get Ready for Fabulous, Happy, Love-Filled Relationships, Now for less than the cost of a latte a day…

Here’s how the 40 days will roll…



Uncover Your Current Love Story & Love Strategy

  • Take a trip through time to see how your past is informing your present story and experience in love and relationships – find the wisdom from your history so you can stop recreating the same self-sabotaging patterns.
  • Identify your unique “Love Blocks” – beliefs hanging out in your mind (some you may know, most you won’t) – and get the scoop on how to rewire and release them.
  • See where you’re going awry in your attempts to get love and create the relationships you want – discover the love strategies that aren’t working and why
  • Learn the biggest myths about love – the ones that most people believe –and gain access to the truth about love – the wisdom that few know, but that everyone should.


Find your Love Cracks, Seal Your Love Leaks & Increase Your Love Quotient

  • Discover your personal “Brand of Protection” that you created to keep you and your heart safe and now gets in your way to having the intimacy, love and connection you crave.
  • Learn why it’s hard to leave relationships, even when they aren’t good for you and don’t make you happy… and what you can do to only choose relationships that help and support you.
  • Measure your “Love Quotient” – your capacity for receiving love – and identify the most common ways you block love from coming into your life.
  • Identify your co-dependent, emotional-hole stuffing patterns – Love Leaks – that keep you from making the best choices in your relationships. And learn how to pour love in to seal them up for good.


Where You Are Wealthy in Love? And Where are You Lacking in Love?

  • Gain a full understanding of the different types of relationships and levels of intimacy so that you can get clear on what you really want to create.
  • Use the power of “Love Rings” to see what type of relationship you are really having with the people in your life – current and past.
  • Learn how to assess how vulnerable and intimate you can be with the different people in your life. And identify how your misaligned expectations are creating undue suffering and heartache and how you can easily and without drama shift your relationships to create so much more happiness.
  • Find where your ‘love holes’ are – where you need to call more love and healthier relationships. Learn how to feel and be wealthy in love.
  • Take a full Relationship Inventory of your current and past relationships – and empower yourself to transform, release, or grow these relationships based on what truly makes you happy.


Where do you love yourself? And do you need more self-love?

  • Take a “Self-Love Pulse Check” to determine the ways in which you are doing a great job loving yourself, and the ways in which you really need to improve your relationship with yourself. (using a proprietary assessment created by The Christine’s.)
  • Identify the areas of self-love (the branches of self-love) that you want to grow this year, and make a self-love promise to yourself that you will keep all year long.
  • Forgive the ways in which you haven’t acted as your own best friend, especially when it comes to relationships, releasing the shame, judgement and regret and replacing it with self-compassion and self-acceptance.
  • Learn what self-love is, what it isn’t, and the practical and spiritual realities of loving yourself. Get super fun and daring self-love practices you can use to increase your self-love mojo.
  • Get real tools to use during times you face hard choices to make sure you can act as your own best friend – always choosing ME before WE, receiving love for yourself over needing it from another.


Make and Take the Promise to Love & Honor Yourself First

  • Take the five most important vows of your life – the ones that you must make with yourself before you can ever have healthy, happy relationships full of unconditional love and respect
  • Map out your “Multiple Streams of Love” – so that you don’t over-rely on any on relationship, and instead of many avenues to get the love you need
  • Create a “24/7 Downline to Love” – so that you have access to the love you need no matter what is going on in your life or relationships with others.
  • Get crystal clear on what you really want from your life, and make an undeniable promise to yourself to create a life that brings that and only attracts relationships that support that.


Write Your New Love Story & Make Your Powerful Love Strategy

  • Committed now to yourself and your happiness, map out your strategy for love – from an empowered, self-loving and wealthy in love place!
  • Claim your true love story – create a manifesta for the friendships, romantic relationships, and family relationships you CHOOSE to create, attracting to you what you really want.
  • Put solid love strategies in place to deal with relationship difficulties and “loneliness flare ups.”
  • Identify and commit to easy, fun, and daring self-love practices that increase your ability to connect to love 24/7 and that ensure you stay on the path to loving yourself & opening to receive even more love.


We don’t always take time to celebrate our accomplishments but on this day, we will! And we will celebrate BIG! And be there to celebrate with you, lock in the learnings and send you off in style – with a PLAN FOR YOUR LOVE WEALTH and RELATIONSHIP HAPPINESS!

I want to do it again! I loved the absolute focus for 40 days on loving ME. This course has changed my life, I am committed to loving myself. Thank you Christines, the experience was priceless, transformational, and liberating. – Eve, Tonopah, NV
The daily exercises keep up the momentum. This course has incredible tools and they bloody well work. :) Christine and Christine really believe in what they are doing. They are honest and vulnerable, supportive and upbeat. They’ve created a true healing process that helps you heal. It is money well spent. I would join in again! – Caroline, Ottawa, ON, Canada

What would be possible if every relationship in your life added to your happiness?

If your relationships lifted you up and provided you with unconditional love and support?

ANYTHING would be possible. That’s what…

All those dreams, talents, visions, and desires you’ve got locked away for safe keeping tomorrow, would start becoming realities today!



We’ve hand-picked these Love Makers —empowered, internationally-known superstars who will share their secrets with you. They’ve busted through fear and limitation in their own lives to create the relationships and lives their hearts and souls desired. They’ve literally taken the steps to be wealthy in love! They have created massively abundant love lives, using super powered tools they will share with you!


Carol AllenCarol Allen

Why Love Doesn’t Always Work The Way You Want – and what you can really do about it

Vedic Astrologer Relationship and ‘star’ expert shares all about what the stars & divine timing have to say about your love life and relationships, what you have control over and what you don’t.

Debi BerndtDebi Berndt

Let Down the Walls & Let Love In

Bestselling Author of Let Love In Hypnotherapist and master at how to stop settling for mediocre relationships and attract true Love, teaching and guiding people to take down the subconscious walls and blocks keeping them from the love they want.


Shasta Nelson

Shasta Nelson

Increase Your Love Wealth By Amping Up Your Non-Romantic Relationships

Founder of GirlfriendCircles.com and author of Friendships Don’t Just Happen! Non-romantic relationship strategist, spiritual teacher, and founder of a friendship matching site 35 cities, shares how to consciously create fabulous friendships and stop love starvation forever.

Iyanla Vanzant

Let go and create extraordinary Love

Best-Selling Author, Spiritual Technician and Master Teacher on Oprah’s LifeClass Get at a much deeper level why people come into your life, how to let go, deal with loneliness or wanting a relationship you don’t have and absolutely loving yourself, unconditionally.

Mat BoggsMat Boggs

Breakthrough Love

Best-selling Author and creator of Cracking the Man Code Understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship you want.


Orna MatthewOrna and Matthew Walters

Love is No Accident, It Happens on Purpose

Relationship Coaches & Founders of the Love On Purpose Revolution Master guides for Singles who want Love, and myth busters that love is supposed to happen by accident.   Sundays will be Love Making Sundays. You will tune into an intimate and truth-telling conversation with Christine, Christine & a divinely powerful Love Maker. During each liberating conversation, you learn how they became wealthy and happy in love, and now teach others how to do the same. You’ll get their secrets and tools for how they create the relationships they want. And if Sunday mornings don’t work for you, you can download recordings to listen to whenever you want, and you’ll have them as part of you Love Library forever.

Get your place in the Love Bubble Today!

Maybe you’re asking yourself: is this 40-Day Adventure for me?

This is a must-do-course for you if you are ready to . . .

  • Give up having to work hard at love or play games to get it.
  • Give up suffering over being single or hanging onto relationships that don’t give you what you need.
  • Stop comparing your relationship, or lack thereof, to others.
  • Stop feeling alone and lonely, or afraid to reach out and make the deeper connections your heart craves.
  • Stop believing that there is something you have to do or be in order to earn or find love.
  • Start having the kind of relationships you really want, and stop settling for relationships that are less than you want.
  • Believe you can be really, truly happy even before you find your ‘one’ or your relationship becomes ‘perfect’.
  • Embrace that there’s nothing wrong with YOU, and believe that you can find what you’re looking for.
  • Feel fulfilled, complete and IN LOVE no matter who is or who isn’t sleeping next to you.
  • Have every relationship in your life be one that makes you happy and helps you be a better YOU!
  • Love yourself, for real!
You have opened me up, and given me tools that I can return to time and again. Bundles of gratitude to Christine Arylo and Christine Hassler for this course and this journey. You have created an opportunity for me that has had a powerful impact on my life. You have shown they way out of the desert of love into a rich garden full of love (and because I know the way, I can find my way back should I ever find myself in need). – Katherine, Phoenix AZ
I walked away with a new-found self respect and a wake up call to who I am and what I am entitled to in my life. It was hard to accept that I was the enabler in the relationship and that I allowed my self respect to take the back burner in order to hold on to a love that wasn’t really there. I learned where I was weak, why I refused to hold myself to a higher standard and the fear that kept me there for 17 years. It is extremely hard to accept responsibility in your life. I cried at times, I laughed at others but I know this has been the catalyst I needed to start really loving myself. I have done a lot of self help in the past months and this is the only one that hit the nail on the head! Thanks Christine, I don’t feel so alone anymore! – Patricia


We’d love to be your guides to open your life to more relationships you love and that love you back!


Why We Created the 40-Day Choosing ME before WE Experience

We were called to offer this 40-day adventure into love and happiness in all of your relationships because we know how much relationships can take you away from your purpose and happiness … and also what is possible when you take a stand for only having loving, respectful relationships in your life. At some point during your self love journey, you must be willing to stand so fiercely for your own happiness that you say NO to settling for less than you heart and soul desire. NO to relationships that don’t support you to reach your dreams or help you become a better person. And YES to surrounding yourself with so much love, support, friendship, companionship, intimacy, and connection that you can hardly believe you are so wealthy in LOVE! We believe that suffering over love and settling in love is optional, and something that you no longer have to choose. We believe that our culture’s definition of love is so skewed and confined that most people have no idea what love really is or how to find it – even though we all need and want it. The truth is… You were born knowing how to love yourself, how to find love whenever you need. You were born knowing you are loved, and that it is your divine right to only have relationships full of unconditional love and respect. On this journey, you will return to the truth of love. You will take back your Love Power and learn to have the best relationships of your life! In devotion to love, Christine & Christine

Register Now for the 40-Day Choosing ME Before WE Self-Love Adventure!


Register now and you’ll Receive this 40-day transformational course, including…

  • 6 Wednesday “Love Activation” Transformation Sessions with Christine and Christine — Two women who have checked every romantic relationship box, who have transformed every relationship in their life, have been on a spiritual and self-love path for 10 years and who have REAL answers and processes that work. Every Wednesday for 6 weeks, you’ll receive a 75-minute audio recording including our best teachings, interactive exercises, and powerful “lovework,” including special “ME MOMENTS” we’ve recorded at the end of each session to take you deeper into your relationship with yourself.
  • 6 Thursday Powerful “LOVEWORK” adventures — Get ready to blow out the old beliefs hanging out in your mind with a love building exercise each week based on our 6 most powerful tools. Insightful adventures you get to take with and for yourself.
  • 6 Friday Self-Love Dare Videos that Build Your Self-Love Mojo and Love Smarts — Your biggest ally against settling in love and relationships requires a series of simple, small acts every day. Each week, you’ll receive a daring act of love via video that takes you out of your comfort zone and tests out your love zone!
  • 6 Sunday’s with the Love Makers – Sunday morning you’ll be able to tune into a whole lot of inspiration with one of our Love Maker conversations. And if you can’t listen live, you’ll have full access to the recording.
  • 6 Monday Miracle Messages — Inspirational love from us delivered to you so you can start your week from love.
  • 6 Tuesday ME Moments – a powerful reflection question at the end of each of the 7 day segments to reflect on what you’ve learned before you move into the new material.
  • A complete set of written transcripts of the six Love Activation sessions – so you can study and take in the information visually as well as listening to the calls.
  • Daily Practices to Build Your Love Power — One of the simplest acts you can take (yet one that few people actually do) is a short morning practice based in love. We call it a “Love Boost.” In less than 3 minutes you can shift your entire day by starting with with Love. We’ll show you how.


  • Daily emails that deliver everything you need and keep you focused, on track and having fun – we will arrive in your inbox everyday at the same time, with that day’s recording, video or lovework or inspiration – so you can keep on the 40 day adventure no matter where you are in the world as long as you have access to email. It’s all set up, all you have to do is open the email and love yourself!
  • An one-stop website that includes every audio, video and more that you’ll need broken down by week in an easy to use format. Participants have told us that our websites are some of the best they’ve ever used in this types of programs.
  • Access to the 40-Day program forever, so you can take it as many times as you want! After the program completes, you’ll get access to a link that allows you to start and take the course anytime you want!

Don’t wait any longer.

Happy relationships and a rocking love life are just around the corner.

Make this the time to become Wealthy & Happy in Love

Every relationship starts with the one with yourself –

Love yourself well today and get on this Love train!

I am so happy that I very quickly got over my skepticism and registered! Being able to see your videos and how passionate you both are about this put my concerns at ease. It was amazingly helpful, that the Christine’s spoke about their OWN experiences. By sharing what has happened to them allowed me to understand that they overcame issues too. They obviously knew it was important to share what they learned with others because they knew how much they had overcome and grown, and wholeheartedly wished to help others do the same. This course was inspiring and incredible! – Laurah-Lee, Yoga Teacher Winnipeg, MB
This course changed my life. It wasn’t easy, but if you are ready to get rid of old, unhelpful junk that is holding you back- do it, don’t second guess yourself, do it. – Sparrow, Reno, NV



INVESTMENT: Register today

for 1 payment of $97


Yes! Sign me up now for $97 and deliver my e-course today

OR, for $147,
have the full Choosing Me Before We Kit – mailed to your home.

(includes a complete set of CDs for your Love Library of all course recordings and love maker interviews and a printed copy of the welcome booklet PLUS printed love work instructions and worksheets – allow 4 weeks for delivery, but you can start your program as soon as you like.)

YES! Sign me up now for $147 AND
send the Choosing Me Before We Kit – to my home AND
deliver my e-course today!

You’ll love it too, we guarantee it, or your money back.

If you’re not 100% satisfied, we don’t expect, or even desire, to keep your money. Do the course, and if it doesn’t create results for you, we’ll give you your money back, no questions asked. You just email us within 30 days of your initial purchase date.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. Can I participate even if I can’t listen to the sessions on Wednesdays? YES. All the sessions are available online, so you can download and listen to them whenever you have time. We recommend making a 90 minute date with yourself on Wednesdays, or whatever day you decide to listen to the audio sessions – call it “Sacred ME time” – and keep those dates no matter what. And if you have to break the date, reschedule ASAP. Self love is a practice.
  2. What if I start and can’t finish the 40 days? As a paid registrant of the 40-Day Choosing ME before WE adventure, you’ll have 24/7 lifetime access to all the materials. You can repeat the 40 days as many times as you want on your own.
  3. What if I go on vacation or have to travel during this time? This 40-Day Self-Love Adventure goes wherever you go! You can participate from anywhere in the world, as long as you can access your email. And even if you can’t, you can tap in when you plug back into the grid. Or you can download the live calls and listen to them on the plane (or the beach!).
  4. What if I have a busy schedule? Then you definitely want to sign up! The 40-Day Choosing ME before WE Adventure will show you how to put wisdom and tools into action and transform your life right now—you can have a happy love life and happy relationships even with a busy schedule. The 40 days have been built to fit into your life, not to become another to-do.


You’re ready to BELIEVE that you CAN have the most awesome, loving relationships EVER!

You’re ready to BE FREE of the fear, hurt, doubt and anger that’s been holding you back from having the relationships you know you deserve.

We’ve got an ocean full of love

just waiting for you!

Christine AryloChristine Arylo: Queen of Self-Love, Inspirational Catalyst

Christine Arylo is an internationally recognized inspirational catalyst and spiritual coach and the self-love author of Choosing ME before WE, Everywoman’s Guide to Life and Love and the best-selling book Madly in Love with ME, the Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend. Christine has been dubbed the ‘Queen of Self-Love’ for her daring and groundbreaking work to make self-love a tangible reality for people around the world, including founding the international day of self-love on February 13th, often referred to as Madly in Love with ME™ Day. Christine’s opinions have aired on E! Entertainment, CBS, FOX and ABC and over radio shows across the country, as well as in the Huffington Post, San Francisco Chronicle and Daily Om. A self-admitted, but recovering achievement junkie, Kellogg m.b.a. and a former marketing executive for companies like Gap, Visa and Frito-Lay, Christine is also the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl Reform School, a school dedicated to transforming people’s inner critics into their inner superheroines. When not out in the world speaking, teaching and leading transformational experiences, Christine can be found hanging out with her soul tribe of spectacular, heart-centered, down-to-earth people in beautiful places enjoying good food, great wine and meaningful (and laughter-filled) conversation.

Christine HasslerAbout Christine Hassler, MA, Life Coach – Author – Speaker

Christine Hassler (www.christinehassler.com) supports individuals in discovering the answers to the questions: “Who Am I, What do I want, and How do I get it?” She is a Life Coach with a counseling emphasis specializing in relationships, career, money, personal development and spiritual growth. Her expertise is helping people overcome “Expectation Hangovers®” – a phenomenon she identified and trademarked – and teaching how to use them for personal transformation. After leaving her successful job as a Hollywood agent at 25 and triumphing over her own quarterlife crisis, Christine was inspired to write her first book Twenty-Something, Twenty-Everything: A Quarter-life Woman’s Guide to Balance and Direction. Her second book The Twenty-Something Manifesto was written for men and women, and her most recent book Expectation Hangover is helping people everywhere triumph over disappointment. As a professional speaker, Christine leads seminars and workshops to audiences around the country. She has spoken to over 10,000 college students as well as to conferences and corporations about generational diversity. Christine has appeared and been featured as an expert in media outlets such as: The Today Show, CNN, ABC, CBS, FOX, E!, Style, WGN, PBS, Glamour, Self, Women’s Health, The Wall Street Journal, Cosmo, US News and World Report, The Laura Ingram Show, and The New York Times as well as various local television and radio shows. Her expertise on the life issues facing Gen Y and as a life coach has made her a popular columnist on the Huffington Post since 2006. Christine is a spokesperson for American Express and the key resource for their women’s and millennial advocacy programs. From her passion about education and student development, Christine created a life balance curriculum for the Leadership Institute. She is member of Northwestern University’s Council of 100, The Young Entrepreneur Council and is a faculty member at the University of Santa Monica teaching programs in Spiritual Psychology. Christine grew up in Dallas, graduated cum laude from Northwestern University and received her Masters Degree in Psychology from the University of Santa Monica. Christine is active in volunteerism and loves living a healthy lifestyle. She currently resides in Los Angeles and loves spending time with her family and friends in Austin, Texas.



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